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Wednesday, January 07, 2009

Queer Folk

Why is it that when women are completely exasperated and fed up with men in general, some of them at least entertain the idea of trying out lesbianism. I keep on running into women who have "had it up to here!" with men and think that "Maybe I should just become a lesbian!" Okay, go for it.

But, on the other hand, I've never heard of any exasperated men who have "had it up to here" with women in general threaten to become gay.

What gives??? It's probably the same thing that makes a straight man like to watch two hot women going at it -- while I've never heard of a woman that gets off on watching two dudes going at it. Weird, this queer world we live in.

18 comments:

Sylvia said...

There are a great many women who get very turn on watching gay sex. The popularity of "Queer as Folk" attests to that.

Laurie said...

Cause a woman doesn't do all the
things a straight man does that
piss women off...
Plus a woman knows when to say the
right thing AND MEAN IT...

And what Sylvia says is true...
I would rather watch women going
at it or men going at it...But I
sure DO NOT wanna see a man and a
woman doing it...

I know...How did I get knocked up.


TACKLE YOU HUGS!!!!!!!!!!!

Daniel said...

Maybe the men think that if they move on to another woman then they will finally figure them out.

David said...

Add me to the chorus of those who say that plenty of women love watching man on man action. It was just harder for them to find all those years ago. The gay porn boom isn't just being fed by teh gays.

Breenlantern said...

what's a "whu-mehn"?

*snicker*

LeLo said...

I hate it when women say that. Yeah, that's the answer.

anne marie in philly said...

oh, I wouldn't say THAT...I get turned on watching two guys having sex...or two women...or a guy and a girl...

yep, just call me horny!

Ultra Dave said...

That sums it up "It's a queer world", plus most straight guys only need a six pack to turn gay briefly.

annie said...

i love anne-maries's comment! vote me in.....

love from little sis-bro

Palm Springs Savant said...

hee hee, one of the great mysteries of the universe, I reckon.

;-)

emeraldcityguy said...

Actually I know several women, gay & straight, who appreciate a hot nasty gay porn flick or twelve.

christopherc said...

Well, I have to join the chorus of a lot of women like watching guy on guy action. I had a co-worker who used to attempt to set me up with her kick-box instructor at our gym... her only condition was she was to be there to watch us when we "got together".

But, as you mentioned... it is a very queer world out there.

-C

Ur-spo said...

Some of this is based on the theory there are no homosexual or heterosexual persons, only homosexual or heterosexual acts - and people are often on a 'spectrum' of what they have done in their life time.

That said, women are more likely than men (for psychological reasons) to try homosexual relations.
I've known many cases of women I believe are straight nevertheless hang out with another woman due to a history of abuse/dissatisfaction from men.
I also see women as more flexible with relationships - seeing sex as part of a friendship relationship.

bridgeout said...

Great questions and great comments! :-D You make a good point. I have heard women say that as a "reason" to turn...but never a man cite that as a reason to "play for the other team." I never would have thought that I would have cared to watch "2 dudes go at it" but _some_ of the scenes from "Queer as Folk" were captivating... kind of like trying not to look at the sun or something. Maybe like the guy I had in my office today who could not stop looking at my boobs! I mean really!
I agree w/ Laurie's comment... I no longer have ANY interest in seeing a woman and a man "doing it." See the sexuality can of worms you have opened Lewis?? ;-)

Java said...

I know of gay men who get fed up with men in general. But I've never heard of a guy who has "had it up to here!" with men go out and look for a woman to hook up with.

And yeah, what David said. Gay guy porn appeals to more than just gay guys. For instance, as a straight woman I really like a penis. And what's better than a penis than two penises??

JoeL said...

Every time I went to the movies with my ex best friend and two guys were making out, she'd grab and squeeze my arm. Sometimes really had. She did get turned on seing two guys kissing.

It got her excited, I got scared.

lol

Shayla Kersten said...

I'll add my voice to the ones saying some women like watching or reading gay sex. A lot of them. Myself included. :)

WAT said...

Um, no you'd be surprised. I've met plenty of "straight" men who've had it with women and actually have said they have considered men.

HA!