(If you are turned off by sexually explicit words or slang terms, read no further.)
Don't miss this editorial. While in Orlando the other day, Sorted Lives and I were discussing what it was that made a gay man gay or what made a straight man straight. Is Larry Craig really gay? Or a straight man just wanting his dick sucked? Does it matter who sucks a guy off? Seriously, if the room was dark and there were, say, a woman, a straight man, and a gay guy sucking you off, would you know the difference? And would it matter who it was that got you off? Are there gay guys that have had straight ones suck them off? Yup. Straight guys that have had gay ones suck them off? Yup. Did it change their sexual preference? Maybe. Maybe not. And does it turn a straight guy gay if he gets it on with a gay dude? Or the other way around? Not necessarily. It's all about the closet in many cases. Dark, quiet, alone. Just needing it worked over. And, many times, it doesn't matter who.
15 comments:
A lot of the "tearoom trade" are relatively straight guys who can't get sex at home and can't afford to pay for it. But there's quite a few gay guys who like to suck dick and aren't too choosey that hang out there too.
it all starts with a kiss. So yes, it matters to me. SO GAY!
And does it matter more or less if you're paying for it?
Questions for the millennium, I tell you.
To tell you the truth, of all my experiences, there have only been a few who have gotten me off by giving me a blow job... i enjoy more of the touching, feeling and actual sex... so the whole bathroom blow job thing has never really gotten to me (and yes jeff is one who can suck me dry very well)...heheh
Whoa. That could solve all my problems at one go :)
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I am sure Craig is the sucker and not the suckee. Which means he's a big queer.
If you set aside the 'fact' that being gay is not 'just' sex based...Then how a man gets off would not determine his sexuality...That is why gay men are often looked upon in a negative way, because society only see the sexual tendancies & not what lies beneath. No matter what, where or when, if it is sex based, the world is going to know about it. A shame really!
Shaney's right. There are so many degrees of gay and straight. sometimes it just blurs. And it is all about *needs* and what mentaly you can accept.
Well, perhaps a man can suck a dick a little stronger than a woman... That's the difference!lol!
Gosh. I dunno. Frankly I want a man's hands grabbing my dick presumably with his mouth to follow. But, er...sometimes I surf straight porn. Go figure. But "shaney's" point is dead on: we gays are viewed as 'sex' and not the whole person to a large degree.
gore vidal thought there are no such thing as heterosexuls and homosexuals - only hetero and homosexul acts; and what someone is/does was ultimately not worthy of labels or even of signficance.
well.
May the one who gives the perfect blowjob win! woohoo!!
Happy Saturday night Lewis and friends! :-)
It's just a hole.....
and since I do not reciprocate I don't care what it looks like below the waist....
BUT I AM GAY!*!*
LOL
Over the years, I've come to believe that sexual identity is about what in your head.
And it has little correlation with sexual acts only associated with what's between your legs.
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