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Monday, September 06, 2010

The Spirit Collides with the Bohemian

The Labor Day holiday brings me to three days off. Umm. I can't wait. We have plenty of work to be doing over at my MIL's old apartment but I'm not sure how much of that will get done. Her other two sons will be in town this coming weekend for a visit with her -- and I think we'll just leave the packing, cleaning and arrangements of what-goes-where to them. MIL has made it clear that she's not a big fan of mine and its been bothering my head a little. In spite of my I Don't Give a Crap Policy, it only concerns me that I know how to function semi-well in combination with her and my LoverBoy. We are her lifeline to many things.

Getting up at 03:30am does something to a guy that renders him weirded out and spacey. So upon my return yesterday, I dove onto our bed for a short Sunday afternoon nap with the Pooch. I tried as best I could to drag LoverBoy with us but he's got a vehement aversion to naps. After that, we headed over to North Portland for a late summer evening's collision with the Post Apocalyptic Bohemian and the Spirit of Saint Lewis. We've been reading each others writings for a while now -- and we actually met ever so briefly last spring at Portland's Red Dress Party. But I'm a firm believer in not placing your opinions of someone in how they look in a red dress so we thought it was only appropriate to see each other in alternate apparel.

Stephen and his partner Rolfe treated LoverBoy and me to an experience that we rarely get any more....the chance to stay off of our iPhones and relax without any electronic entertainment or laptops in their unbelievably well-crafted backyard garden. We enjoyed cold cocktails and a vegetarian's orgasmic delight in their Boys' Fort....an small part of their back yard with garden couches and tables and a giant chandelier hanging from the dogwood tree overhead where the boys hang out and chat. Their entire home and yard is somewhere you could exist in quiet well in a spirit of relaxation of self-indulgent enjoyment. Cozy, quiet, horribly private with bamboo and giant old trees leaning over their property. Its quite the place. And my favorite part of the evening's conversation came when Stephen looked at me and remarked that he enjoyed reading my blog (and I sort of quote here...) "Because you're so introspective and spiritual sometimes and other times you're just a plain old bitch!" I mean, how true is that. You've gotta love the internet for allowing people that don't even know you to, well, know you. Apparently my writing has been fairly accurate. Thanks guys for allowing us into your home and for treating us so well!

We're still trying to put together the many, many pieces of our condo refinance. We still are not sure if we're going to be able to join our friends at Folsom Street Fair in San Francisco or at our other friend's birthday bash in Palm Springs. And we're working on our bids/work schedules for October. We have to do this process every single month during these few days. October brings a ton of flying to Hawaii. Its not someplace that I have any desire to work -- but I'm afraid that I am destined to fly one of those bugger trips soon. (I know, I know....I am full aware that I won't find much support when it comes to actually complaining about flying to Hawaii......believe me, I get it...its a work thing when I'd rather it were a vacation thing....).

9 comments:

J.P. said...

I agree with "PAB" about the content of your blog and that it makes a good read. I have had the pleasure of meeting you and I can say that what you have here is an accurate representation of you.

Ur-spo said...

the chance to stay off of our iPhones and relax without any electronic entertainment or laptops ....

what a treat !

I have patients who literally have panic attacks now if they are not allowed access to their technology. Being by one's self - unable to be contacted and vice versa - is becoming a rare thing; and alas, not seen as positive.

Stephen said...

I love to receive a good review!

It was lovely to collide with you. You are a handsome, smart, funny, & well traveled pair.

LSL said...

The description of that back yard almost had me drifting off to dreamland. What a wonderful evening. Glad you guys had a chance to get together.

Anne said...

you know what? i love you. all of you. every piece. good and bad. well, you know......

the rest? do what you can and let the wind sort it out!

CJ/Rick said...

Glad your home for some rest. "aversion to naps"? How odd. Well it has screwed with my night time slumber on occassion.Don't sweat the small stuff Lewis and you and Loverboy get some smooch time in. As well as some cuddles with Mason.

Wayne said...

I'm with Loverboy. I don't nap either...

Will said...

We had a magical evening in the Boys' Fort last August with stimulating conversation and the pleasure of being hosted by two fascinating, witty and handsome artists. it was, as they say, all good!

Homer said...

I am sorry that you have been having troubles. I get to see all my relatives this coming week. Sigh.